When I went through my 2 miscarriages I had quite a few people that are close to me state things like "it's part of God's plan" or "God is good and will bless you with another child if he sees fit and decides it's in your plan". These people know I do not believe in God. And I feel obligated to just nod. But inside I want to yell and scream. I don't want to think that my baby dying was a part of any "plan".

Please note that I do understand that is their beliefs and I am ok with people having whatever faith they choose. But it bothers me when people say things to me when they know flat out that I don't believe it. Has anyone else experienced this??? Does anyone else know what I mean???