I’m almost 24 weeks and I really didn’t want to find out the gender until birth. I’ve wanted to do it with all my kids and this is my last baby and so I was excited to wait. We have an ultrasound tomorrow and my husband expressed to me that he wants to know. I told him I don’t really like the idea of him knowing and not me. That’s just something I wanted us to have in the delivery room and I feel sad if we won’t get that because he knows. He says he wants to be prepared. I don’t really feel like that’s a big deal now days… we have a one year old girl so if it’s a girl we are set and as far as a boy… I can order stuff and it will be here in a week. Not to mention I’ve actually bought a few “boy” things and you can always add a bow lol. He suggested someone else knowing and then buying us things. But we still won’t be prepared til they are here then. I told him those aren’t reasons for me to find out… but if he just wants to know then I would just find out with him. But not tell anyone else. Also I personally feel like if he’s going to have that argument then he’s agreeing to me buying what I want to prepare (obviously within responsibility of finances) idk I just feel like I’ll immediately regret it. I love him but overall I don’t think it’s fair. I found out with the other 2 for him and this is my last kid. What would you do… advice?