Do I tell him?

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I feel like my relationship ended back in July when he slept with someone else. I got back with him because we had our baby August 12. I felt disconnected from him, the entire time. I ended it with him 2 weeks ago. 
Anyway, a guy reconnected with me 3 weeks ago. We kept it friendly, but we noticed feelings are still there. We’re taking a weekend away this weekend to see if it’s anything more. 
Question is, do I tell my ex? He keeps telling me he wants things to work. I don’t really reply, I leave him on read. As I don’t feel the same way anymore. I just worry because he has alcohol issues. He also used suicide on me before to guilt me into staying. I’m worried he’ll do it again. But I don’t want to drag him on thinking we will try again. What do I do?

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No don’t tell him. He’s clearly manipulative and abusive.

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You’re not with your child’s father. Why would you tell him who you’re dating or having sex with? It’s none of his business. You should tell him you don’t plan to get back with him if he thinks you are.

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No. It's none of his business.

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It's not his business. And using suicide as a way to keep you with him is manipulation, if somebody really wants to do it they aren't going to give a warning (usually). Do what makes YOU happy

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Your ex is toxic if he’s used suicide threats to make you stay. Don’t go back to him. His threats are just manipulation. He’s not going to actually do it, and even if he does, that’s not on you. You aren’t responsible for his actions (and this is coming from someone who actually battles real suicidal thoughts). You’ve said yourself that you don’t feel a connection with him, and he’s an ex for a reason. You don’t owe him anything. If you feel like dating someone else, do it. You don’t need your ex’s permission. You’re not his property and telling him would open a can of worms that you don’t want to deal with. It would cause nothing but unnecessary drama and stress. I would advise against telling him because all you’ll get is more manipulation

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It isn’t any of your ex’s business who you date. That is why he is an ex.

Do I tell him?

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