Suspect cheating PT 2

Hi I posted yesterday about me thinking my husband was cheating because of how he’s been acting since he came home from his work trip. I wanted to thank everyone in the comments but I want to stay private on here since i have family on here that I’m not ready to get involved in this. But thank you ladies! I appreciate all the advice.

So I confronted him and at first he was mad that I even asked him about cheating which isn’t like him to respond that way so my stomach just sank because that was my proof. I backed off a little and then calmly tried again and he broke. He said didn’t cheat physically but mentally he started to develop feelings for another woman. Of course it’s someone he works with. He said he told her (which he showed me in texts ) that he loves me and that he doesn’t want to pursue anything with her and she didn’t take it well and has been fighting with him for days. I’m hurt and betrayed and took the kids to my parents where I’ll stay until I can clear my head. He begged of course and told me I can look at all the records in his phone to prove it was never physical but the fact he had feelings or has or whatever for someone else hurts me. I thought we were happy I had no indication we needed to work on things.

The girl actually did contact me and told me that it wasn’t physical although she tried and that she didn’t mean to fall hard for him. I’m not a violent person but that girl brought out some dark thoughts…

My head is all over the place and I don’t know what I’m gonna do. My heart hurts but I’m trying to hold it together for my son and daughter.

Again thanks for all the support. I wish that I had been wrong :(