Strip clubs & relationship

Okay so my mans birthday is coming up in a couple weeks & we planned Vegas w some friends & family to celebrate. As me and my bf are talking about the trip he mentions he wants to go to the strip club w his boys while he’s out there, making it clear he didn’t want me to come. So I instantly said no thinking it was a disrespectful question. I don’t know if I’m more mad he wants to be entertained by strippers instead of having his girlfriend put on a show for him 💃🏾or because he expects me to sit around in the hotel while he’s getting ass thrown in his face 🤦🏽‍♀️ idk i feel like I’m overreacting and should let him have fun on his birthday but also know that’s something I’m not comfortable with & would bother me the rest of the trip..

Would you let your man go to the strip club with just guy friends or even just the strip club in general ?

If you do let your man go to strip clubs how to you deal w the thought of him getting turned on by another woman ?