Worried about getting a pap

Virginia • Mother of 4 with our last little guy being born at 26 weeks. All is well and everyone is healthy. We are blessed 😇
So part of the normal process in early pregnancy is getting a Pap smear.  I'm worried because I've had brown spotting since 6.5 weeks that only gets worse after sex.  I went in and had blood work and an ultrasound and everything looks good with a heartbeat and everything.  I'm worried that the pap will make me bleed. I seem so sensitive and even though everything checks out I haven't let my husband touch me out of fear.  My previous pregnancy I spotted at 8 weeks only to find out I was carrying twins and that was only once. This time around its a singleton.   Anyone with similar experiences?