My husband and I moved away from family for his job. We have a few close friends from his work we hang out with, and who I usually drink with socially. Tonight is his company Christmas party, and we just found out about the pregnancy (our first) a few days ago. We are waiting for our doctor appointment to tell our family. I dont want to tell our friends too soon in case of complications or more importantly so our family doesn't find out before we have a chance to do something special. I'm worried we won't be able to hide it from our friends until then. Should we bite the bullet and tell them now or see how things go?