My boyfriend and I have 4 years together, we actually met at church. Due to the pandemic our church closed down. Well he found this new church and I started going with him. Well today I had something to do so I couldn’t go and didn’t plan on seeing him. I usually only see him on Sundays.

But I didn’t want to miss the blessing so I accompanied my mom to the church she’s going to which is a block away from our house.

However before going to church, I called my bf to give him the good mornings and talk for a bit. I mention probably going to church with my mom. He said oh good. But then I said it depended on if I was going back to sleep. He said to stop being a lazybutt (joking around, he said he was one too). He said that I should but it was up to me. I decided to go .

After both church’s were done. We talk on the phone again. I told my bf that I went with my mom and he got jealous. Said that he was going to tell everyone (from his church) that I basically betrayed them. (Which I took as him joking around, I told him that if he did that I would never go back, again joking around) .

The thing I had got canceled so I was able to see him and went to his house. We started to talk about it again and he said that since I felt comfortable at my moms church that he’s not going to take me to his which is where I’m going. That he wonders why I must have liked my moms church (assuming that it was due to another guy). I do have to say that I did mention that I felt comfortable and liked the environment and that whenever I wasn’t going to be able to go with him, I would go with my mom. (As he picks me up and it’s around 20-30ish minutes away from my house) Which he didn’t like. Which again isn’t anything bad. But him saying that he doesn’t want to take me to his church anymore really hurt me. When I asked if he was sure that he doesn’t want to take me anymore I started getting teary eyes. He tried to say that he does want to take me but since I talked so much about how I liked my moms church “better”, I should start going there. But I don’t want to go with my mom I was just visiting and didn’t want to miss the blessing. Since it was going to be a struggle for him to pick me up and drop me off right after church since he lives closer to church. Now I don’t know if He’ll take me with him since he picks me up. & I never thought he would react like this... Any advice?

Also he says he doesn’t trust me because he once got my phone 2 months ago and saw phone calls from a male coworker and thinks I might have/had something with him although I have explained that those phone calls are strictly work related.