Anyone else's husband (and yourself) go back and forth about having a second soon?

We were so set on getting pregnant sooner than later that I took my IUD out to start trying... then my husband has second guesses about it and it makes me also. So we decided to just be "careful" and wait a few more months. (Obviously if it happened sooner, wouldn't be a bad thing)

And my husband was the most strict on waiting a few more months. We're just gonna do the pull out method (worked good before for us) and now........ he has not been pulling out 🤣🤦‍♀️ I'm like dude, I'm now thinking your trying to get me pregnant?

What is it with the second child though that makes you get worried about having another? I know we want one but it's so hard to make that decision, it's so scary thinking of my baby not being the baby anymore, but I don't want my kids too far apart... right now my son is 2.

At this point, I could be pregnant so, so much for waiting 🙄😂🤷‍♀️🍾