I know it’s taboo to usually message a guy first on a dating but this one guy in particular that I matched with was very attractive. Some people say don’t do it because some guys tend to be dry when you message first as a girl. But surprisingly I’ve been texting him until like 3 in the morning and I like it… I’m tempted to pull back I don’t make myself easily accessible but I know I might have to in order to draw him in more. It may seem like I’m overthinking it but I’ve had a past of making myself accessible and I don’t wanna do that anymore there clearly needs to be a balance.