GUYS I HAD AN EPIPHANY!!!!

Okay I'm gonna do a quit recap of my last few posts. It was originally about me not liking my husband's mother's(lesbians). They are weed smoking, crystal loving, vegan eating hippies. I got a lot of hate because I was rude on how I talked about them. I found out my family is miserable where we live when I heard my husband talking to his mom's. I agreed to go to his home town because his moms want us to move there. I did end up having a heart to heart with his mom's. They said they know I didn't like them but I'm the Persephone to their sons Hades(my husband's name is actual Hades) and I make him happy. So we are moving down there and I told my parents. They called my husband's moms dyke's and said my daughter wouldn't get bullied if she would lose weight. She's not fat. They always call my daughter fat and son stupid. My daughter also called me a watered down version of my mom and dad. That I'm not bad to that degree but I constantly make her feel bad about herself and put her down and my son and husband I could tell by their face felt the same way. Well.... I had an epiphany. The reason I hated my husband's mom's wasn't because of the veganism or them being hippies (even though I found them annoying). It's because everyone is happier when they're around! When any of his family is around. My own baby will laugh at them but not laugh with me. They're my insecurity. They sweet and fun and supportive and I know deep down that I'm a lot like my parents and not like them. I make my family miserable sometimes and they make them happy. That's not their fault. It's mine and I need to change. I want to take my husband's feelings into consideration. Support my daughter's interest. Help my son. Bond with my baby.