Overly Sensitive?

Am I being overly sensitive, or do I have a right to feel hurt and cry when my partner calls me names? He’s calling me things like crybaby, bitch, and other similar things I try not to let this hurt me, but sometimes I become upset and do end up crying. He says I’m bri “soft” when this happens and that I need to “grow a pair”. It made me think twice about if I really do need to toughen up or if this is something anyone might cry over?

Edit: he’s my husband