My heart aches so much. I’m going to share a little story. I’ll be traveling out fo the country for a huge family gathering for thanksgiving. I’m so excited and been shopping for cute outfits for dinner. I decided to take pics in my outfits in the dressing room and showed my bf.

Well he got so mad and told me he’d rather not talk about it. It wasn’t the fact I’d be out of the country for 3 days it was the fact he didn’t like the outfits I chose. I thought he wouldn’t talk to me for maybe 3 hours or so. He went 2 full days. I was in shock. I texted him pretty upset and said “I don’t understand how you can ignore me over pics but I’m sure you check out girls dressed more revealing than me”

I probably shouldn’t have texted that. I was just so mad ….he ignored me for another 7 days!!!! Please keep in mind that this has happened before. He has ignored me for days and one time it happened 2 full weeks.

He tried contacting me through friends numbers. I felt bad. I gave in and texted him this to have some closure

He bothered to call me when he saw I had him blocked! I unblocked him and told him this

The silent treatment makes me so anxious and all I can think of is he is talking to other females.

He stopped calling and texting. 4 days later he calls me! I wanted to give him another chance.

He says this.

He tells me he was just mad. He’s been calling since. He left a voicemail saying I escalated this shit by blocking him and not giving him space. He said that I’m very dramatic.

Truth is I blocked because I was just hurting seeing his contact there waiting to get a text. A day felt like a whole week. He has done this about 5x. He ignores me!

He keeps telling me that he just needs space but I’m scared to give him another chance. Then he sends me Pinterest quotes like this

He told me if I really loved him I wouldn’t have blocked him so easily. To me it just feels like he’s waiting for a special person bc I ain’t the one

Now I feel like I’m the bad guy here