I pointed out days ago that on his personal email he was speaking of love and yet on his work email he’s speaking to me like garbage. He pretended to not know what I was talking about.

When I said that it was only me stooping, meaning I’m the one to push everything aside, including my own feelings and concerns to keep things level or calm whatever emotions of his brought about by my speaking, he made it seem as if I was claiming to be better than him and that I should just stay on my pedestal.

We’ve been sporadically talking by email, instead of in person, my reason is because he blows up often and acts as if it never happened. But when he acknowledged that I am his wife and that he loves me and wants to be with me, I said that an emailed “good morning” is impersonal and took that time to ask what his thought process was because of how rapidly his mind changed about me. I want my marriage to work, but I’m not understanding this.