Husband so insensitive. I was in a car wreck!

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Got into a bad car accident on Friday was hit head on by a drunk driver the airbags gave gave a concussion and messed me up pretty bad. I can't do much. But anyway I was gonna ask how supportive or helpful is ur husbqnds or boyfriends? Bc I feel like the way in being treated is not ok. When it happend he was asleep so I spend the night alone in the er. The next morning I called him and told him whqt happend he was very dismissive and played it down like I was being dramatic. I had a whole ct scan on my head as they was worried my skull was fractured....anyways...I get home and he's really actn like nun happend... no hugs no kisses no are u okay no im happy ur alive....nothing .. at this point I felt very frustrated and unloved...so I started to get a little attitude bcthqts what I do when I hurt. I asked him do u even care and his response was "its not like u died" at that moment my heart sank I realized the person I married is not supportive we arnt a team hes not in my corner...a few hours go by he then says let's watch a movie holds my hand and acts like everything's fine..I ask him can u help me up so I can switch the laundry around bc he needed work clothes washed. He then says "why do u need help" that annoyedtf outa me bc are u serious then I get into the laundry room and I'm folding and I asked can u pls put ur underwear in ur drawer and I get a why can't u do it....smh then i lose it I say fuck u dude u can't do one fuckn thing for me can u then he grabs me by the arm the one I am absolutely bruised up on and he goes thats it take ur ass to bed I pull back and say don't put ur hands on me. Then he walks away. Idk why he's being so cold and mean. I feel so alone and I don't expect to be waited on hand and foot we have 3 kids together and it be nice to ask for some help and get a yes bby anything else u need. Been with this man 10 years and he has done so many dirty things to me. Cheating on me while pregnant not paying our mortgage so our home going into foreclosure while I was pregnant I had no idea. There's so much more. When my GPA passed be basically was cold and told me to get over it. I jus wanted to be a family bc inever had that and ik I deserve better im a sahm no income no family and he knows that. So I put up with it but this right here has made me realize that if I died he wouldn't even care. Idk what to do any advice ? Picture of arm from wreck that he grabbed