First cycle TTC, how do you keep doing this???

I feel stupid for even posting this because I know how hard it is for a lot of women that have been trying for years, but still felt the need to vent. This is my first cycle TTC. We are both 25 so should be in our prime here, Had sex on all the days we were supposed to, made myself crazy by testing every DPO, and now am 14dpo, period is due today/tomorrow and BFN. I knew with the kind of person I am (a planner, have to know everything ahead of time) that I’d make myself crazy with the TWW but holy shit this is hard. Treating my body like I’m pregnant for two weeks to only be let down is mentally taxing and I really feel for those that have been going through this for a while. Also seeing so many people on social media get pregnant by accident is so triggering. Any tips for next cycle because I can’t imagine all this stress is good for ttc.