Painful sex hsv2

Kayla

I found out I had hsv 2 in July and after the initial breakout I have not noticed any new ones. However now every single time I have sex with my bf it is super painful at the entrance and feels like I am being ripped, it gets better after a minute but I am then sore and have little tears around the area for days. We are long distance so I go weeks without sex but it still hurts every time. Is this related to the hsv2 or is something else wrong?