Mind your own uterus

Today at thanksgiving my mom, my younger sister and my mother and I were talking and my grandmother poked my stomach (food baby, I was full) when we were at the table eating pie. It was just causal girl talk. And I was like wtf in my head. 🥺. I only told my mom that I’m pregnant. I’m pretty early like 4 weeks and I asked her when we were alone if she told anyone I’m pregnant and she said no. And then my grandmother was asking if I was on birth control and I lied and said omg yessssss! And then she said good you don’t need anymore babies. I have 2 kids a 4 year old and a almost 3 year old. Yes life is crazy and was ever Crazier when they were babies. 19 months Apart. I’m married for 5 years and we just planned #3 and I got pregnant really fast. The first month trying. Idk but I hate hearing negative thing about how I should not have anymore kids. Like I don’t ask for money, I’m married, same father for all my kids, and I hardly hardly ever ask if someone can watch my kids. And if so it’s just so my husband and I can go on a date night together cuz our marriage is important too. Idk I guess I just got offended. Also my grandmother isn’t all there anymore. She seams to have a loose mouth lately. ☹️