When you found out he was cheating?

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To those who found your so was cheating through social media. Was it someone in his block list? Was it someone liking all his stuff? Someone you trusted? Someone he talked crap about all the time?

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He strait up told me. Cried like a baby. Saying he was sorry. Blah blah blah. Not even two weeks after being married. He did it again. And then turned mentally, verbally  and emotionally abusive. I moved states after 1 1/2 yrs of dating….. and a week after getting married.  My divorce is final on December 15th. And he’s now upset because “he thought we’d still be friends forever” haha no.

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I’ve been cheated on in pretty much every relationship I’ve been on and I stayed every time because I always tried to see the good in people.. The first I got cheated on it was with his ex.. Then it was with my friend , then it was with my cousin. He ended up dying in a car accident when I learned that it was more girls. 
Another relationship he cheated on me with a friend whom I was very close with , we grew up together and she was like my little sister.. We broke up. 
Another relationship, it was my best friend who was telling him that he deserved better. Then it was a girl he knew before me .. then it was his ex and then it was a wanna be porn star and then it was a girl he used to date and then it was a “sick day girl” that he knew. 
It depends on what YOU call cheating. My current relationship we’ve had a few hiccups but never just either of us having sex with someone else. We like to classify cheating as hiding conversations with the other sex from each other , entertaining others , or obviously actually sex which has not yet happen (knocks on wood) I’m not going to lie it sucks and i’m only 20 and have lost myself with that first relationship, I have a big heart and I just wanted them all to love me as much as I loved them and I just wanted to make them happy so I do not blame them for cheating on me. I blamed myself for staying and losing myself in the process of trying to please others. I had to learn self worth because cheating does have plenty of affect on your mental. but yeah sorry for the long comment that’s my ted talk 😅

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My ex husband had fb and I didn’t (I know sounds weird) but I just wasn’t phased on being on fb, well are marriage wasnt going great and for some reason or other i was catching up with a friend and I looked him up on my friends fb one day.. well I was shocked he’d had this fb account for years during our 15 year relationship and It was like looking at a single persons account I was nowhere to be seen not one picture of us together or a marriage status in site!! 
He had a few comments here and there from one particular girl (she was from his year at school) and safe to say once we decided to split up and end things one month later he was out on a date with her 😂 I guess he was probably always going to hit her up or her him 🤦🏼‍♀️ makes me wonder if they always had an emotional thing going on 🤷‍♀️ 
Anyways I moved on and now have a lovely fiancé and two kids.
I guess my ex’s girlfriend will always have to live with the fact if he could do that to me he can do that to her too 🙌🏻

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It was a girl he met at a CHURCH event of all things. They started hanging out (she had a boyfriend too) and she would call my boyfriend to help her when she locked herself out of her car or had a bad day instead of her own boyfriend. He ended up leaving me for her because I had such low self esteem I couldn’t even break it off when I knew something was going on. 
He had previously cheated on me with multiple other girls so I should have known. There was no real way for me to tell in that time who he was cheating with, there were so many. He would always text and hang out with so many girls it was hard to keep track. It was my first real relationship so i didn’t know what was “normal”.

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It was with his baby momma. And this is why after him I refused to be with a man with children.

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I was cheated on with multiple women by the same guy. One was someone he talked badly about, another was his ex, another was a girl he would like pictures of on insta, another was a mutual friend, another was a girl his friend had dated. There is no one way to cheat

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Someone he had never mentioned in his entire life. They were in a college class together at the time

When you found out he was cheating?

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