My kids fight nonstop. The moment they get up till they go to bed. My kids have two different dads and currently live with my youngest sons dad, and things are great.

They fight over everything and anything and all I do is yell at them and I really think it’s getting to my older son who is 8. Of course he’s the oldest (other boy is 3) and I feel he gets blamed for everything. I need tips on what I can do to stop myself from yelling. My three year old is going through the worst stage of not listening and throwing tantrums right now.

I just cry somedays cause I can’t do it.

I was yelled at nonstop as a child and I know what it’s like and I need to stop doing it with my kids.