Sex? My body, my choice

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So my boyfriend wanted to do freaky stuff on FaceTime but I said no and it’s Bc my stomach feels ill and my ph is off from the last time so that’s also killing my mood. But I said no and sometimes I feel like I don’t have a choice because when I say no he gets upset and ignores me while he helps himself but if I say yeah knowing I’m not really in the mood then I’m just feeling a little used in the end and I don’t like that . I haven’t said the reason y I didn’t wanna do anything but honestly I shouldn’t have to because its my 
body my choice right. But I think he came in me knowing I said no the last time I just don’t wanna ask if he did but I  haven’t been feeling the same since Sunday.. idk I just wanted to let that out and any opinions are welcome and helpful..

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let me just say that I've definitely been here before, I know that feeling of feeling used , after they guilt tripped you into saying yes , but I learnt from that and I'd never want to feel that way again.
You should never let anyone guilt trip you into saying yes, if you're not feeling well, and he knows that, why would he still want to FaceTime you knowing that you're not even in the mood while you guys are on the call? You should definitely speak to him about this, it's the only way you're ever going to feel better about this, I'm so sorry you had to go through this! Your boyfriend should take no for an answer, especially when it comes to things like this, I really think you should speak to him about this, it's really not okay that you have to feel this way , I hope everything goes well  :)  .

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Um… if he came in you and you said no,, then I’m sorry to be the one telling you this,, but that is rape. You did not consent to that. So you need to dump him and if you’re able to report him,, I would.

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Did you tell him that? Cause if you did and he still doesn’t respect you that’s not good.

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