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I’m with the man here. It’s really inconvenient to go back because you didn’t plan well enough to get it all the first time, and then he offered to take turn but you said no for a petty and immature reason. He did something for you and he can do other things for ther people so I don’t see it as problematic that he was willing to go out for the friend but not to redo what was really your mistake. It just sounds like your response is really immature.
Would this make you mad
So we went to the store (5 min away) and I forgot something so I told my husband “can we go back later?” He stared complaining he didn’t want to go again and all and not wanting to go so I was like ok fine. (And no I don’t drive). Then later he gets a call from someone to drop off something at their has something his mom needs to drop off (but she does not drive) and now he does go!!’ And it’s farther away from the store. He tells me to go with him so we can stop on our way there as I told him nooo! You are not doing it for me so no I don’t want anything anymore.
It gets me mad that he can’t do me a favor but does it for something else
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Why don't you drive? I'd be annoyed too if I had to be the only one always driving everywhere & you wanted me to go back.. and its his momswho asked for a favor so of course he will do it, its his mom? Obviously the thing you needed wasn't life or death thats why he found it to not be worth it.
Really? If you forgot something and don’t drive and the store is five minutes away, walk….I wouldn’t expect someone to take me back because I forgot something. And then you act all petty and childish when you get the chance to be driven. So what he did something else for someone who matters to him. Don’t be so selfish. It’s healthy for people to have others to care about. It’s not all about you. I just think your way in the wrong here.
Frankly, I would rather not have to go back to a store I JUST left unless I had to head that direction again anyway. I’m with your SO here, it’s really inconvenient to go out of your way like that unless something else comes up that makes it a more convenient task.He already did you the favor by taking you once, and then he offered to take you again when the opportunity came up to go by there on his way to help someone else with another favor. If I were in that position, I wouldn’t make a big deal out of it. 🤷🏻♀️
Going to the store again is inconvenient as hell. But he has 2 women in his life apparently that don't drive & the other needed help just like you did. He probably didn't want to go, but felt obligated. You could have just went with him to get what you needed and been done with it. He could have needed the company bc it's annoying to have to drive people around. Get your spoiled, entitled ass up, apologize, & drive yourself.
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