Torn, to tell or not to tell

I am suffering so greatly. I can't even emphasize how sick I've been feeling. Literally can't eat. Everything makes me sick except poptarts. I am about 8 wks pregnant and my husband/family is unaware. Each time I've been pregnant, I've asked him not to share with extended family until we make it through 1st trimester. Each time he has told immediately, even the pregnancy following a traumatic miscarriage, he still told. Even after I emphasized not wanting peopleto know until we were through the riskiest stage especiallyafter a miscarriage. So this time decided not to tell until ready for everyone to know but I'm suffering so bad, trying to act normal around the house yet in sick as a dog and tired. I want to tell him but his family is SO judgemental and I just don't want to deal with that right now and I can't trust him to keep it 😭😭😭😭 wwyd?? I been holding it for about 4wks but getting harder.