What’s the creepiest/weirdest date you’ve ever been on? Trigger warning* (Idont know how to make the post say trigger warning)

I want to share the worst creepiest date I’ve ever been on. Maybe it will help some of the young girls on here…. I plan on telling my children about it when they turn 16. My mom was naive and didn’t share anything with me really. I’m going to try and share this with my kids so they are very aware how creepy some people can be out there, how drinking and blacking out… terrible things can happen.

It was a week or 2 before finals were supposed to start… my friends and I were headed to bigger frat parties on our campus. The rugby house always threw crazy parties. My friends and I got a hold of 151… disgusting. I usually would take only one or 2 shots mixed with something. But this night because finals were coming up and I was stressed, I took more. I blacked in and out… was out of control according to my friends. I wanted to party. But these creepy guys brought me to this house… I’m not really sure what happened honestly. I woke up the next day in his bed. He was a gentleman the next day actually, we went and got breakfast, had nice conversation. He was studying to be an engineer.. top of his class in a top program. He told me nothing happened the night before on that morning. I was relieved. My friends were pissed tho respectfully but forgave me because I never acted like that.

The guy asks me out again and I decided to say yea even tho I was ashamed how we hooked up and i was a mess. I thought maybe I could make this right and show that I’m not like that.

He picks me up and asks “do you do coke?” And I was taken aback like “no… no I don’t.” I’m stuck in the car with him driving to the restaurant and him talking about how he gets through finals taking all sorts of drugs. He is all jumpy and all. I should have left, but I was so ashamed. Dinner was awful… he didn’t seem interested in anything I said. Then, when he brings me back home… he hands me a morning after pill and says “I should probably take this just in case.”

My world fell apart in that moment… I felt sick.

Everything I could have worked for… gone. I turned out to be okay…. But I swore from that day on I would never ever make myself vulnerable like that… never ever hook up. I didn’t want to even meet a guy for a year after that, focus on myself.

Then my now husband comes along. We both got tested before we did anything… we waited months before doing anything. We respected each other.

I meet him when I was 19 and been together 13 years.

I didn’t want to make this post so serious, but I wanted tp share it. Be careful out there. Don’t make yourself vulnerable… make sure to always have an eye or be holding your drink. Don’t drink too much even if you have lots of friends with you… especially when out somewhere you don’t know people