Loving someone who hurts you

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2½ years , we don't argue that much , but there are nights when things just get out of hand, we would be frustrated and we'd argue , but I feel like I'm a very very sensitive person, so I cry easily, I would really really let it affect me so much when we argue , like it physically hurts me and I can feel it in my heart and throat , and I can't stop crying , my family has even confronted me about the fact that they hear me cry early hours in the morning and they know it's over him . I don't know how to handle this, it really hurts me so much, what triggers it is when he blatantly ignores what i have to say in an argument , or he just literally will ignore me for hours, I really take it to my heart and I cry about it , I really hate that I do this , like please no judgment bc it's the last thing I need okay, I'm already so frustrated with myself bc u literally just finished crying my eyes out right now over an argument we had.

How do I control this? Like is it even normal to cry so hard over an argument?