Is this normal?

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I find myself having to have this conversation with my husband A LOT. Is this something other women experience or should I see an OBGYN? Some times my cervix is very sore, like right now, right before ovulation. But my stomach is really sore also, not just my cervix. I feel like he’s never heard a woman say this to him?? Like he thinks i’m using my cervix as an excuse to not have sex… 🤦🏻‍♀️

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You should see your doctor but your husband seems dismissive and gave a half ass apology. That seems like the biggest issue here.

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I’d see your OB. my husband is….well endowed and I have a very sensitive cervix, he definitely hits it every now and then but it has never caused pain like you’re describing. If anything it’s just a “ooh too deep” and it’s done. No lasting pain after or anything like that.

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His lack of empathy is just unapologetically douchebag act but the pain you're describing is not normal and requires investigation. Get it checked out.

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If he bruised your cervix it can hurt for days. Happened to me once and I felt like death the next day.

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Definitely not normal. 
My husband has hit my cervix before, and I also get pain when I would ovulate and still never had this problem. 
You need to go see your gynecologist

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It's normal to have a bit of pain when something hits your cervix but to be in that much pain doesn't sound normal and think it could do with investigating by a doctor just to make sure all is ok and it's just normal for you

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I have had pain during but not necessarily after. It is true though your ovulation can be painful. And yes at times i do have to “be more expressive”so my husband gets the point.

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No thats not normal at all, you should definitely see a gynaecologist about that

Is this normal?

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