Need to vent

Back story- my husband and I been together for 3 yr and living together for 1 1/2 and we have a 10 month old together. We havent been on a date since our baby was born and like 2 weeks ago he won tickets for a basketball game and he immediately told me his mom can take care of the baby so I can go. He already told his mom and his mom of course said yes but tonight he was telling me how he doesnt trust his mom with the baby like maybe i should stay and he can ask his brother to go and of course i got mad/disappointed bc i was like you were the one who said ur mom could take care of the bby and now ure saying thats a bad idea and i said i was really excited to go to a basketball game since i never been to one and spent time with you since we havent gone on a date and he said ok ok u can go and I said well youre saying u dont trust ur mom then if u dont trust her then i dont trust her and ill just stay and he got mad yelling at me saying NOO, youre going NOW I dont want you to later on say i didnt want u to go and keep reproaching. His mom and my mom only see the baby on the weekends so they dont know how to put baby to sleep, feed, change, and we dont have any other family we trust. Right now hes sleeping on the couch probably still mad at me but how can I go out and enjoy the game after how he yelled at me saying I HAVE TO GO 😞☹️ my questions is would you go the the game or stay with baby? …. How can I tell him that i dont want to go and he can go and enjoy the game since last thing that i want is his mom texting us in the middle of the game saying baby is crying and him telling me its my fault for not staying with the baby 😔😔