Parents kicked out my husband. Were they right?

So last month my parents kicked out my husband. We have been together 16 years. We lived with them and our 4 year old daughter and paid rent. I wouldn’t say he is lazy but I also wouldn’t say he has a fire under his ass either. However, there are some pretty shitty husband’s out there and we have a child together. He stays faithful to my knowledge. It’s not all his fault either, the economy is tough right now and I was laid off in December as well. Now he has to get an apartment he can’t afford. He got employed, starts tomorrow, but it’s a low paying position and is going to take him awhile to get on his feet.

My parents explanation is that they were tired of seeing him on the couch and that we argue a lot. We do argue mainly about finances but what couples don’t especially right now? it’s only going to be worst now that we have to support two households. Plus this is traumatic for our daughter with him not around now. I’m not ready to move on from him but at the same time am also frustrated with this situation and that we can’t get out of it. I am looking for a new job as well.

My dad said if you love him so much move in with him at his apartment but I don’t see it that way. It’s only a one bedroom and physically we couldn’t make it work. We actually had more space here. Our daughter has here own room, backyard, etc. we were set and working on our lives and future (he is also taking classes for his college degree and I am in grad school). We needed one more year, maybe two tops to get our act together professionally but now that is not happening. It is making me feel like a huge wrench was thrown in our plans.