Married women 50/50

Any married women going 50/50 with their husband in finances and chores… do you feel like you still operate in your feminine energy by doing so? I’m so sick of the media bashing relationships like that saying “that’s a roommate “ or he’s not man enough etc.. when realistically if both parties are working then both should be contributing.. im sure the woman isn’t working just to get her hair, nails and feet done she’s working to contribute to the household/family. I guess it makes me feel a bit insecure..

What’s your 50/50 experience like?