what should/do i do?? 😭

okay, so abit of a long one, i’ve been talking to a guy for awhile we stopped talking but my feelings for him have remained the same (we’ll call him H) but i’ve since become friends with another guy (we’ll call him J) (he’s my old best friends ex boyfriend) i know, it’s a shit thing (i don’t talk to my old best friend anymore, she has since moved on and now engaged) but that’s why i don’t want anything happening between us besides being friends as i find it’s wrong doing things with your best friend/ex best friends ex?! idk hahaha

anyway, J has since gained feelings for me but i don’t feel the same at all because i still have feelings for H, i’ve never been the type of person to hurt someone’s feelings but i feel like i’m stuck in this situation and i can’t get out 😭