Newbie here! Please, heeeelp

Hi everyone, hope you’re all doing well!

I apologize in advance for any mistake I might make, English is not my native language.

This is gonna be quite a long read, so thanks to anyone that takes some time to read it, I could reeeeally use some help rn.

I’m a newbie, so any advice would be highly appreciated!

I usually use apps like Premom or Fertility Friend, but they all give different Ovulation days, so apart from being confused I’m also sad cause I feel like we’ve “wasted” an entire month…

This our 3rd month TTC and this is my 2nd time temping. I temp regularly at 7am everyday. I’m using MomMed sticks to detect my LH surge, and this time around I found my peak on Dec 27th. So, in theory, I should’ve O’d the day after (CD 14).

But my bbt says otherwise 😂 According to my temperature, O day was Dec 26… But tbh, I didn’t sleep very well the day before and after Christmas, so I relied more upon my opk instead of my bbt this time. I usually have irregular cycles, ranging from 28 to 32 days, AF is supposed to show up any day starting from tomorrow.

I’ve had intense cramping on CD 25, that is 11dpo (provided that O day was on CD 14) that lasted only a couple of minutes, and that morning my bbt had dropped. I’m having mild cramps since then, like if Af was about to start, but generally I have severe cramps only about an hour before Af actually arrives.

(MAYBE TMI?) Also, I’ve had lotion like CM since 5 DPO and it had increased in the last two days, and this is unusual for me as I am usually dry till Af finally shows up.

Again, thanks to all those who have read this post, I’d really appreciate if you could give me any advice🥰🙏🏻