So I have decided to be celibate. Yep don't laugh. We have currently been celibate for 3 weeks. Are there any other celibant females out there? I need any advice you can offer. Me and my boyfriend do live together. And we have been doing good so far but this is one of the hardest things we've ever done. Yes he has agreed to be celibate with me, but kissing has even become a challenge ?.  I am open to any advice or just things to do to take our minds off sex.