Chubby girls when did you and partner feel baby kick?

Hi girls, I'm a little on the chubby side and I'm exactly 21 weeks pregnant with my first..I feel movement here and there but nothing big. I read chunkier girls take longer to feel baby and even longer for your partner to feel baby.

How far along were you when you felt baby actually kick around and when you're partner felt baby? I cant wait for my husband to feel movement, but seems like it's taking longer, especially when I read or see other girls posting videos of baby moving from the outside. 😔