My husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for almost 3 and we have a 6mo. Lately I have been thinking a lot about our relationship and it seems like there are starting to be more “cons” than “pros” of us being together.

I know they say after having a baby it’s hard sometimes on a couple but honestly I really don’t think it has anything to do with the baby.

It seems like we are more friends than lovers. We lack intimacy ie we barely ever kiss and we have sex like once a month… in 2021 we had sex once… one time… mainly because I was pregnant and was totally off sex and I had a traumatic birth so I needed lots of time to heal but still… yikes. I also started fantasizing about having sex with other men…

What’s confusing me is that I still love him a lot. I cant image my life without him at all so I’m very confused…

I really don’t want to split up so I just don’t know how to being it up to him…