Bf’s confession (Part 2) Am I toxic/ controlling ?

A couple of hours ago I posted how my bf confessed to me that he drinks heavily and has a problem. He told me he would be sober starting yesterday and he would stop. I also mentioned how he’s delusional….he changes the story quick and makes me feel crazy…

He literally told me he would stop …now he’s switching up the story saying he said he would cut down not completely stop. I swear he said that… he called me crazy.

Just today he texted me saying he doesn’t drink until he gets home and takes 2-3 shots. I swear yesterday he said he would sober up ….

Sorry for the confusion but I meant to say “no, a shot of vodka”

The issue here is that he lied again saying he would stop and now he’s saying he still drinks but just cut down the consumption from 15 shots to 2-3 shots to relax ….I felt betrayed. He sent me voice messages saying “you’re such a controlling bitch” which is why I said his reaction was not normal.

He later called me saying “you’re just a lunatic and crazy bitch. I can’t relax at home with alcohol or whatever it’s a long day at work”

I was trying to talk and his speech was very rapid and he didn’t let me talk. He cursed at me and said “you’re the reason I drink because you’re a shitty person”

Now I feel like he can’t open to me cause I was “judging him” but I swear I didn’t mean to come off as judgmental. I just felt lied to!!!!

So here’s what he sent me yesterday:

He did tell me it wouldn’t happen anymore. He got very heated when I told him he told me otherwise.

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