So I 26F live with my husband away from my family (45min drive) my friend 27F and I went into Philly yesterday to a bug exhibit 12:00-3:00 and then had lunch at the casino 3:30-5:30 a Alice in wonderland tea and gin party 6:00-7:30, I told my dad what and where I was going and what time do he knew if I didn't get ahold of him or text back I was fine. During the tea and gin party 6:00-7:30 my dad is blowing up my phone and my brother!. My dad texts me and says "have you heard from your brother? I can't get ahold of him, please text him!" I text my brother and no answer. I put my phone away and my dad blows up my phone again. I look at my phone and my dad is still worried. Then my brother texted me back and said "I'm hungry order me a pizza" I told him "I'm at a show, call dad" then my brother proceeds to text me his order of food then I told him again "I'm at a show, can't text, call dad" then my dad texts me and was upset that I told my brother to text him his pizza order and that my dad "was too busy" atm. So i apologized to my friend and said "sorry my family is texting me" and she said no biggy. Well I get home safely, go to bed, wake up and get ready for work. My dad calls me 5 minutes before I open up my barbershop and he Is freaking out saying "I thought you got kidnapped! Why didn't you tell me you were home! Are you safe? Where are you!?" And I said "I'm at work, what do you need?" He said "oh okay did you have a good time? Was it fun?" I said "you and your son kept annoying me, and I couldn't enjoy the show because you guy's blew up my phone the entire time" he said "oh that's no big deal, that's no too bad, who else blew up your phone?" I said "just you dad...and your son.." and he got silent and then said "we'll have a good day at work!" And hung up... I'm so upset because my brother has special needs and doesn't live at home, so my dad expects me to drop everything and cater to his son.. I'm so tired of it. Am I in the wrong for getting mad at my dad?