Difficult in-laws

Kelsey

Hi everyone I’m looking for a little advice on this situation in in currently my partners family is being difficult and has been since my little girl was born they were crying when she was 2 days old that they were bonding etc telling me how to parent telling me things judging me my partner just stays out of it so always me that has to defend myself I have currently removed them from my life and my little girl I said could go to her grandparents for the full day once a week but they are saying this isn’t enough am I being unfair or is that ok I’m struggling myself with all the stuff that has happened with them I have no postnatal depression and would rather my little one be with me also I seen text I. My partners phone saying they wanted photos of my washing for evidence if he ever leaves me which my partner never sent it ( was like 2 loads full was not a lot) but now I don’t want them in my house they are toxic and I don’t know what to do can anyone give me any advice