So my Childrens father is mad at me because I don’t want our children to be involved with his parents because they have showed no interest being involved in my sons life they still haven’t given him his first birthday present and he turned two last month they don’t text me about him they don’t ask to see him haven’t heard from his mom since august they didn’t tell me to tell him happy birthday they didn’t even show up to his first birthday and I rescheduled the party so they would come and they still didn’t show but since I am having a girl his mom wants to now talk to me and be involved now because she lost to baby girls soon after birth and I don’t want my son to feel unloved but his sister to get all the attention why didn’t she want to talk to me before I got pregnant or on Milos birthday why the day she gets told it’s a girl and this is why I was also worried about having a girl because I just want my children to know they are all loved equally no matter who or what they are and what they look like I am very hurt and he just never thinks they do wrong and then he gets mad at me saying that they text him to see our son and they ask about our son to him but why are they not texting me because me and my children’s father have an on and off relationship and I have taken care of our child since the day he was born technically my children’s father and me are separated living diff places but somewhere together and he barley makes time to see his son so why are they texting and asking him I would never keep my children away from their family but at the same time I want them to be seeing them on a regular basis not like once every six months and they only live 20 minutes away from me and I don’t want favoritism over they Childrens just because one is a girl and now he is upset with me but am I wrong I just want the best interest for my babies