How do I tell my boyfriend that his sex isn’t satisfying? I love him. But I’d rather watch porn and jump a pillow than have sex with him. He doesn’t moan, tell me he’s close, or talk to me dirty it’s just dry silent sex which I hate. & he knows this. He also isn’t very good at oral & I’ve given him tips on how I like It but I guess he just forgets. His oral hurts my vagina ..