Me and my partner have been together for about two months and we finally decided we were ready to start having sex. It wasn’t the first time for either of us. We’ve done it twice and both times I can’t get out of my own head and screw up my orgasm and I don’t cum. I feel bad cause he’s trying so hard and he really wants to get me there but my mind is stopping me. He’s gotten me so close but then it just doesn’t happen. I’ve even tried assisting during the second time, hoping that would help. Do you guys have any advice on how to get out of your head and just let it happen? Don’t get me wrong I’m enjoying the sex either way but I know he feels bad cause he thinks he’s the only one benefiting.