Hi despise my boyfriend‘s best friend. They’ve known each other for longer than I’ve known him. He does not respect women and he has said awful awful awful things about me. I know because I saw many text from him saying horrible things about me from the day my boyfriend and I started dating until now after we have a kid together and live together. My boyfriend knows I don’t like him but I put up with him because their friends. Thankfully for the first time he asked if it’s OK to invite him to a party tonight for his sister’s birthday. I told him I wasn’t excited about him coming but he could invite him if he wants because I don’t want him to feel like I’m controlling him and like he has freedom but just let me know if he’s coming so I can get mentally prepared. Only one minute later my boyfriend texted and said he’s not going to invite him.I’m really happy about that but I also don’t want him to feel like I’m controlling him and his friends because you know how men are they don’t like to feel like women are controlling them