So my husband decided to tell me that he thinks “I have an out” Backstory… I have two kids ages 4 and 7 from a previous marriage. I work full time. I go to lay down and wrestle both kids into bed each night around 7:30-8pm. I give up me time to get them settled and things ready for the next day while he watches tv or plays video games. I asked for help at bedtime , his excuse is the kids only want you. So I said it must be nice to have an excuse…. His reply to me was, well you go to bed every night at 8 you have an out it must be nice…… yea ok I haven’t had a second to myself or help in 7 years. Going to bed early isn’t an out. I do it because the kids need sleep and things need to be ready. I might be crazy but I don’t think he should paint himself a martyr while sitting on his butt playing a game.