My boyfriend, we live together (I live with him), we had been TTC since August and I finally found out I was pregnant after giving up..

Gave up the idea of wanting a kid, adopted a dog. Gave up emotions on this guy because I’ve caught him still talking to his ex (she’d message “baby” then he’d just respond like “yeah?”) I’ve called him out on it countless times and to top it off, he’s still friends with majority of the females he fucked on social media (unsure about numbers), he had told me if he would have had sex with his ex after he got out from doing time, he would have gotten her pregnant (this was when we first started dating and I think I asked him a question and that was his response)

Meanwhile, when I told him I was pregnant he was hesitant and said “he wasn’t ready”.

I’ve messaged her myself but not being disrespectful or calling her out of her name, and most of the stuff I said was “it’s obvious there was shit there before me etc..” and she had heart reacted to it.

I get out the shower and “my” man asks to have sex, not really in the mood, but I mean.. I guess?

Currently 6w3d pregnant and I just couldn’t do it.. He acknowledged my Nephrostomy bag, then I thought about his reaction of the baby when I told him i was pregnant, as I was getting ready to get on top, remembering he said “I’d get her pregnant”..

I couldn’t.. I got off.