Scared to fall pregnant while obese

Argh. As I write this I know one one hand that it shouldn’t matter what weight your are from a body positivity perspective and we are all beautiful BUT from a health perspective I let myself go. I’m worried being pregnant while so overweight and unhealthy is going to lead to complications.

I also know it’s unsafe to lose weight (which is not what I’m alluding to here) but who else has been obese and fallen pregnant, and maintained their weight/or even shifted some off safely for the health of themselves and baby?

No trolls please - if you don’t have anything to contribute I’d rather not have to deal with it. Thanks for understanding