What would you do?

Jada Rose

The poll is just for fun and a little participation in my drama šŸ˜‚

So I’m pregnant again by the father of my son (my bf) and i plan on breastfeeding again. His step-mom & dad are a bit entitled and old school. However, they never said anything to me when I openly breastfed my son in their home. I asked and it was always as long as he’s fed. Their 5 year old even would ā€œhelpā€ me pump lol. My son doesn’t like being covered and I’m not making my child uncomfortable to bring comfort to adults. But I’m not disrespectful with it, my child needs to focus anyway so if it’s busy or crowded I usually step to a private area. I still do what i need to do tho. That being said there was a situation back in May where I was breastfeeding my son in the living room with only his grandmother in the room. I’m turned at an angle and have a jacket on. She proceeds to basically cuss me out for breastfeeding my child in front of her and ā€œall these menā€ that were nonexistent. My breasts are for my man’s eyes only and they’re my private parts. I need to learn privacy. I’m just pulling out my ā€œbig breastā€ don’t nobody wanna see my ā€œbig breastsā€. The whole thing. I got up said as respectfully as I could that i respected where she was coming from but that my breasts are for my child’s nutrition, not my man. Then walked to the back yard. I’m visibly upset but try to remain respectful. His dad asks ā€œwhat’s wrong are you okay?ā€ I say I’m okay but your mom just didn’t want me breastfeeding in there so I came out here.ā€ He’s like she’s older and her generation blah blah. I’m like yeah it’s fine I understand. This is when I was a bit younger so I was just trying to keep peace. Word gets out and she ends up apologizing. I think the situation is over. No his dad calls the next day saying I’m disrespectful and he’s not comfortable with my breasts all out and neither is his wife. If I’m gonna come to his house then I need to follow his rules and go to a room otherwise my bf needs to bring his grandson to see him without me. I flip out and it’s a whole big situation. His dad continues to gossip with the other family members and talk shit. Even called my bfs bio mom which he hates to get her opinion and proceed to call me disrespectful. I haven’t really had much contact with them since but what little I’ve had has been cordial. Now I’m back in that boat and when I tell you they can kiss my ass I mean it. I’m all for respect but you never had an issue until your mother said something. Honestly i respect grandma for being upfront rather than be two faced. Then you continue to talk shit to half the family like a child. I just won’t be over there as much. Mind you they’re not even active grandparents. They can come see my children at my house where I will be breastfeeding freely. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I stand strong in my beliefs. My breasts are not for men nor are they sexual. 🄰

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