Need advise :/
So back story: I’ve had a lot going on and I’ve been healing from getting out of an abusive relationship. I was VERY clear with this guy about that. I told him he’s allowed to leave and doesn’t have to stay. I still have a lot of healing to do and I made that extremely extremely clear. He INSISTS on staying because apparently he likes me a ton, even though I continuously tell him time and time again I am not ready to date. I have been telling him this for the past 5 months but he chooses to stay. I made it VERY clear to him last night as well that if he wants, he should move on because he told me he feels he deserves better sometimes. Apparently I was rude for saying that and I don’t do enough for him/ things that make me feel uncomfortable. It’s almost like he’s keeping score, he tells me he does all these things that are uncomfortable for him, but then turns it around and acts like I owe him in return
How would you handle this situation? It’s very overwhelming considering I’ve told him SO many times I’m not ready, yet he insists on talking to me still then acts like I am the problem, then proceeds to ask me weekly to get in a relationship, and gets upset my answers have not changed
He also says that relationships don’t have more expectations, I told him I really don’t think I’ll be able to fix these things while in a relationship. I also told him I feel backed into a corner but for some reason he doesn’t want to give up
Im very confused and feel a little lost because I’ve been trying to communicate and do what’s best for me, but I guess that makes me righteous



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