Do your partners help

Ok so my oldest son 4 and I have been sick since Tuesday both nasty coughs he’s acting like himself but I have felt like crap and could sleep for days o have asked him to watch the kids so I could rest to hopefully feel some what Better any time I lay down here come the kids to jump on me and play my youngest is now sick and all he wants is cuddled I still am cleaning cooking doing it all my fiancé now has it and has got to take a hot bath while I watched the boys and he got to relax to help he had laid in bed all day while I have done everything anytime I ask him to do something he’s says you can do it like I am also sick and worse then what he is he doesn’t have anything beside cold chills and acting like a child I am so tired and feel worse then I was because I haven’t got to rest to even try an get a little better because I’m running around chasing the kids cleaning up and still cleaning and cooking everything sorry this is more of a rant but how do you get your partner to help you when everyone is sick