I need to vent / advice

Tayra

I have so many hormones and emotions right now

I just can’t seem to think straight

At this point on my pregnancy it’s clearly that my mom and husband doesn’t get along at all.

At the beginning of my husband’s and I relationship they used to get along and I was so happy because I finally found someone that get along with my parents. Short story that didn’t last long since he “didn’t ask for my hand “ and he got my engage without my parents there

Before he got me engaged my parents had a conversation with him I’m regards us being married and my husband spoke with my dad and mom which he felt like they were giving him the okay to married me even though they were okay with everything.

After a whole week my mom and mother in law started preparing the weeding I was overwhelmed and saying okay to everything which needed up on my mom getting mad at my mother in law or something like that it’s been 2 years so I don’t quite remember what happen but from there things were never the same.

My husband relationship change with my mom and everything became a problem

I had so many talks with my mom and days crying that I needed up getting married a month later in the court house my husband and I and some friends

Which no parents likes that

We moved out the same day we got married we had our own apartment and furniture.

From there I was working a lot and didn’t saw my mom a lot so when I went out I went to my in laws or friends house and sometimes to my mom she felt like my husband took her daughter away and she never saw me.

My husband doesn’t like to go to my moms because there’s always something to talk about and sometimes I feel like I have to force him to come which he gets a attitude and my mom sees it and it comes back to me

Now I am 30 weeks pregnant I had a baby shower around 28 weeks.

Right now my brother in law is living with me and he goes to the baby shower and after we went to my moms everyone was on a happy mood but me I was just making sure that everyone was happy and no drama occur, I was stressing a bit lol

So today my mom calls me and tells me the reason why my brother in law was being disrespectful which I completely agree with her

He doesn’t know how to handle alcohol, he went into the kitchen without saying can I crab some and took some coquito I saw that and I didn’t found it disrespectful like it’s not his house for him to do that but since I was talking to my uncle I didn’t gave it too much notice I guess

Another things my step grandma was with the young people and my brother in law was there and he was being disrespectful to her some type of way that no one really know since everyone was kinda ignoring him like I say he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol.

And step grandma told my dad and my dad told my husband hey tell your not there to chill

And my husband calls his brother tells him to stop

And the he calls his brother again and said out loud oh let him be if not we’ll talked to him in private

Which I heard that but now it just like my mom told me that was disrespectful he should have stop his brother right there and then.

With my due date coming up my husband and I agree to stay with my parents since my apartment is crowed and we need to move out and into our new house on may btw due date April 17th if he doesn’t come into this world early.

I’m just overwhelmed I want everyone to get along I’m so tired of everything

I am the middle person here and I feel like every months there’s something new.

My mom wants to have a talk with my husband and brother in law in regards on what happen after the baby shower

I have a feeling that if she does before the baby gets here my husband won’t go to my moms house and then it’s going to create a big thing I’m just so overwhelmed and as well with my job like I’m trying to enjoy my pregnancy since I been having Prenetal depression and thing like this make it worst

I even feel like if I end up my marriage it’ll get better

If someone can help me to clear things or something I just don’t want to bother the only two friends that I have plus one of my friends is in labor and the other busy at work so I just need advice

Is my mom right ?

What should I do with my husband or tell him ?