A couple months ago is when this all started. I had a coworker either quit or get fired, whatever actually happened we will never know. Someone told her I was talking about her. Was i? Absolutely not. Her name never once left my mouth. I’m pregnant and 26 years old, I don’t have time or patience for drama. Don’t need it so why create it?

Well ever since, it’s been nonstop harassment from her. She has threatened me, called me names, threatened my unborn child and my three and a half year old as well. Two weeks ago she finally stopped and I thought for sure that we were done with this.

Today I had heard that she was working at my old place of employment which I was considering going back to, they have been asking me (today even) if I’d be interested in coming back. So out of curiosity I asked if she was truly working there, because I absolutely won’t accept a job there if she’s employed there. It was hell working with her. The person I asked questioned why and she knew about the harassment but didn’t know who was doing it so I told her. This is a person I 100000000% trusted.

Well idk if that’s what kicked this all off tonight but something did.

At 6:17pm I get a text from this old coworker. “Glad to see your working with your vehicle there have a good night” instant alarm bells to me because that sounded fishy. I finished what I was doing and went out to inspect my vehicle because I was worried she’d done something.

Well from my fender to the end of the front passenger side door, there was an OBVIOUS key mark. Several spots are pretty deep and I’m super upset about it because even though my van is a piece of crap, I doubt insurance will fix anything. Looks on a vehicle don’t matter much to me but… still. It’s just one of those things I don’t want on my vehicle and obviously that’s an upsetting situation regardless.

So clearly someone had keyed my car. I checked inside of it after work, my sons car seat was unbuckled and moved almost crooked, there was things laying on the floor in the back that I knew hadn’t been there before. That is absolutely on me though because I’m the idiot who left it unlocked when I went into work.

So judging off her text right before, I think I’m safe I’m assuming it was her. My boss is watching cameras in the morning, I plan to press charges, but I’m just sick and tired of this woman. What can I do to make her stop?!

Want to add- yes I’ve responded to her threats and other texts. Simply to try to make her understand that what she is doing and has done is wrong, and to ask her/tell her to stop, and defend myself because this is not okay by any means. So I doubt I can press harassment charges because of the fact I’ve stuck up for myself consistently since all of this began. But there has to be something I can do to end all of this, right? I thought about changing my phone number but it’s linked to everything and I shouldn’t have to do something extremely inconvenient when none of this should have been started in the first place.

This whole situation is honestly getting so stressful and I don’t need the added stress on top of a high risk pregnancy. Someone please please help me figure out how to make this end. I’ve been up crying because I’m so frustrated and I don’t know what the hell to do anymore. I don’t feel safe at work or home because she told me that her boyfriend has been “looking for me” and I don’t know what people are telling her about where I live or anything.

Help.