Hubby doesn’t want to attend son’s military graduation ..

Hey everyone, I have a question… here is my situation…

Hubby and I have been together since 2001. Our oldest son is 19 and about to ship off for Air-force boot camp. Covid restrictions could change the graduation depending on if they have to quarantine or not when they first get there. I am due on 5/26/22 and his expected graduation date is 5/25/22. This is our fourth and final baby. Hubby wants to be present for the baby’s birth, however, I feel it’s more important for our son to have a parent (we’re in Ga and he will

be in Texas so there’s no way I’ll be able to go) there supporting him and his accomplishments!! When telling hubby he needs to go get gets a bit upset and I refuse to not have one of us there for him.

Suggestions?

On the up side.. baby is showing in the 96% in growth, and they may move my date up. Also I have a very low placenta so a c-section may be needed. Should I attempt to have him born early so hubby can do both? Is that even an option or a responsible thing to do?!

Help!! Lol